dilemma over

i had been in a dilemma over a suitor na byudo. he has 3 kids, of which im just a few yrs older than his eldest anak. if you're asking me why the dilemma? its because i've been praying for a good husband, and i'm thinking that maybe, my prayer was asking for a so perfect person and since nobody is perfect, he should have his flaws, which is his pagiging byudo. but luckily, kagabi, when i agreed to us having a merienda before the day ends, i learned that hindi lang yung pagkakaroon nya ng anak ang magiging issue sa amin. mas magiging issue ang mga pananaw namin sa mga bagay bagay. now i know na hindi pa sya ang sagot sa panata ko. and i'm patiently waiting, knowing that He has good plans for me :)