accomplished men

im currently an avid viewer of Moms, QTV-11 mom talk show. last thursday, their topic was about Takusa. ang sabi ng isang guest, i think it was PJ Abellana, na accomplished men dont want arguments at home. kung baga, no need to assert himself kasi proven na ang kaya nyang gawin.. hmmm.. makes me think, kaya ba the men i meet are masyadong assertive because wala pa silang napapatunayan sa sarili nila? POVS? :D